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    CONFIDENCE, PRESENCE & INFLUENCE

    Build your professional presence.
    Communicate with authority and impact.

    When you struggle to speak up in meetings, feel overlooked for opportunities, or want to increase your influence without authority, this category gives you the frameworks and tools to project confidence, communicate effectively, and build strategic influence.

    If you're struggling right now

    If you're facing an upcoming presentation, important meeting, or need to make an impact quickly, start with these immediate steps:

    • Use the Meeting Impact Prep Tool to structure your approach.
    • Practice with the Confidence & Communication Script Builder.
    • Identify one small opportunity to speak up in your next meeting.
    • Focus on preparation over perfection—action builds confidence.
    Overview

    What this category covers

    Use this category when you feel your voice isn't being heard, you're being overlooked for opportunities, or you want to increase your influence without formal authority. It's built for building the presence and communication skills needed to advance your career and make greater impact.

    When to use this category

    • You struggle to speak up in meetings or share your ideas confidently.
    • You feel overlooked for promotions or high-visibility projects.
    • You want to build influence without formal authority or title.
    • You need to communicate complex ideas more effectively.
    • You want to project more confidence and authority in your role.

    If the main issue is about your relationship with your manager, try Manager Relationship & Leadership Style instead. For workplace politics involving multiple stakeholders, try Workplace Dynamics & Politics.

    What this category helps you do:

    • Speak up confidently in meetings and presentations.
    • Communicate complex ideas with clarity and impact.
    • Build influence and credibility without formal authority.
    • Handle challenging conversations with poise.
    • Project professional presence that gets you noticed for the right reasons.
    Signals

    How you'll recognise this pattern

    You'll recognise it if:

    You feel your contributions are overlooked or undervalued in team settings.

    • You hesitate to speak up in meetings, even when you have valuable input.
    • Others with similar experience seem to progress faster or get more visibility.
    • You feel nervous before presentations or important conversations.
    • Your ideas are often credited to others or dismissed without consideration.
    • You avoid taking credit for your work or downplay your achievements.

    Typical pain points:

    A lack of confidence and presence can limit your career trajectory and impact.

    • Missing out on promotions, raises, or high-visibility projects.
    • Feeling frustrated when less experienced colleagues advance faster.
    • Struggling to get buy-in for your ideas and initiatives.
    • Feeling invisible or undervalued despite strong performance.
    • Anxiety about speaking up or taking on leadership opportunities.
    Patterns

    Common confidence patterns you might experience

    Understanding these patterns helps you identify where you might be getting stuck and which strategies will be most effective for building your presence and influence.

    Pattern 1
    The Imposter Syndrome Cycle
    • Doubt your abilities despite evidence of competence.
    • Attribute success to luck or external factors.
    • Fear being "found out" as not qualified.
    • Overprepare or avoid opportunities to prevent exposure.
    Pattern 2
    The Quiet Voice
    • Struggle to speak up in group settings.
    • Process ideas internally while discussions move on.
    • Have valuable insights but share them too late or not at all.
    • Feel overshadowed by more vocal colleagues.
    Pattern 3
    The Undervalued Contributor
    • Consistently deliver strong work but receive little recognition.
    • Focus on execution over visibility and communication.
    • Assume good work will speak for itself.
    • Watch others get credit for similar or lesser contributions.
    Application

    Your core moves in this category

    These moves define your strategic approach to building confidence, presence, and influence. Use them to shape your interactions, increase your visibility, and communicate with greater impact.

    Move 1
    Prepare to perform
    • Structure your thoughts before important meetings or presentations.
    • Practice key messages and anticipate questions.
    • Create visual or written prompts to stay on track.
    • Focus on your value-add rather than perfection.
    Move 2
    Communicate with clarity and impact
    • Structure your communication for different audiences.
    • Lead with key messages rather than background details.
    • Use storytelling to make ideas memorable and persuasive.
    • Practice concise, confident delivery.
    Move 3
    Build strategic visibility
    • Identify key stakeholders and decision-makers in your organization.
    • Seek opportunities to contribute in high-visibility forums.
    • Document and share your achievements strategically.
    • Build relationships that increase your influence network.
    Tools

    Recommended from The Toolkit

    Start with the Confidence & Communication Script Builder to develop your speaking skills, then use the Meeting Impact Prep Tool for important presentations. Each tool provides structured frameworks for building presence and influence.

    Script Builder
    Confidence & Communication Script Builder
    Good for: "I struggle to speak up in meetings or articulate my ideas clearly."
    • Creates customized scripts for meetings, presentations, and difficult conversations.
    • Provides frameworks for structuring your thoughts effectively.
    • Includes techniques for confident delivery and handling questions.
    Produces: ready-to-use scripts and talking points for various workplace scenarios.
    Prep Tool
    Meeting Impact Prep Tool
    Good for: "I have an important meeting coming up and want to make a strong impression."
    • Structures your preparation for maximum impact.
    • Helps identify key messages and objectives.
    • Includes techniques for handling different audience types.
    • Provides rehearsal and feedback frameworks.
    Produces: a comprehensive preparation plan for any important meeting or presentation.
    Framework
    Influence Without Authority Framework
    Good for: "I need to get things done through others without formal authority."
    • Identifies key stakeholders and their motivations.
    • Provides strategies for building credibility and trust.
    • Includes techniques for persuasion and collaboration.
    • Helps navigate organizational politics effectively.
    Produces: a strategic plan for building influence and getting results through others.
    Communication

    Confident scripts for workplace scenarios

    For speaking up
    "Contributing in meetings" script
    Use when you want to confidently share your ideas or perspective in group settings without feeling nervous or unprepared.
    For claiming credit
    "Highlighting achievements" script
    Use when you need to appropriately highlight your contributions and accomplishments without sounding boastful or arrogant.
    For difficult conversations
    "Assertive communication" guide
    Use when you need to set boundaries, push back on unreasonable requests, or address issues directly while maintaining professionalism.

    Not sure if this is the right category?

    If the main issue is about your relationship with your manager, try Manager Relationship & Leadership Style instead.
    For broader workplace politics involving multiple stakeholders, try Workplace Dynamics & Politics.
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